Now, this may seem absurd but it was just the natural course of life and friendship. In the last year, I’ve had three best friends. This is a question that I connected with immediately. “What will you do when your bestfriend suddenly changed?” Things happen, people change and the only thing that you can do is stay true to yourself and be happy. But after a few days I realized that she and I weren’t meant to be friends forever and I became closer with the person that is now my best friend. The sleepover was awful and she was a completely different person that the last time we had spent time together.
She’s burned me in the past so a few months ago at a sleepover, I thought she was the same person. She and I kept in touch and saw each other frequently. A friend I had a few years ago and I changed from best friends to just friends when I moved a good distance away. Put energy in to a new hobby or enjoyed activity. Find other people that you enjoy and spend time with them. If they’re not the same person that they were previously or if things are awkward in the relationship, move on. This would be hard and take some time but it would need to be accepted.
If a best friend were to leave me without a reason, or if they changed and things became awkward I would accept it. “What would you feel when your bestfriend left you without a reason, changed alot and whenever you try starts conversation it feels really awkward?”
